tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post4506463479131813897..comments2014-03-26T14:08:48.070-07:00Comments on Dare To Love: Day 10~Love Is UnconditionalGraceFromHimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04002658313843275194noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-33029890295954688372009-03-11T05:22:00.000-07:002009-03-11T05:22:00.000-07:00Ok, I am going to play catch up on this blog. Forg...Ok, I am going to play catch up on this blog. Forgive my absence:) Good thing I take notes in my book!<BR/><BR/>On this day I cleaned out the truck and most of the garage. My husband was VERY happy. So happy, he hung up curtains for me in our room - without my asking. He wanted to do something for me too! So that was proof to me - the Golden rule really works:) <BR/>To answer the questions: Yes, I think my love has been based on my spouses behavior and his on mine. I really struggle to show my love when it is not returned in a way I hope for.Peggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15658513449613552971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-247023346110303052009-03-03T12:03:00.001-08:002009-03-03T12:03:00.001-08:00Well. First I must say that divorce is out of the...Well. First I must say that divorce is out of the question for us. Firstly the catholic church does not grant it amd neither does the state here in Malta. So we get into marriage with a pretty conviction that this marriage is to last forever.<BR/><BR/>However it still is easy to fall into conditional love. As for me I must adnit that I'm still madly in love with my husband, even more today that 7 years ago when we got married. However I sometimes base my repsonses on his behaviour, especially when I feel taken for granted. I must learn how to keep on be loving and supportive even when I feel not appreciated enough!<BR/><BR/>As so todays dare, I will have to postpone it becuase Im a little short of ideas and time. Maybe I'll try something over the week-end.Isabelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18436630414457314465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-63934590420120872872009-03-03T12:03:00.000-08:002009-03-03T12:03:00.000-08:00Well. First I must say that divorce is out of the...Well. First I must say that divorce is out of the question for us. Firstly the catholic church does not grant it amd neither does the state here in Malta. So we get into marriage with a pretty conviction that this marriage is to last forever.<BR/><BR/>However it still is easy to fall into conditional love. As for me I must adnit that I'm still madly in love with my husband, even more today that 7 years ago when we got married. However I sometimes base my repsonses on his behaviour, especially when I feel taken for granted. I must learn how to keep on be loving and supportive even when I feel not appreciated enough!<BR/><BR/>As so todays dare, I will have to postpone it becuase Im a little short of ideas and time. Maybe I'll try something over the week-end.Isabelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18436630414457314465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-90944208430605349322009-03-03T09:11:00.000-08:002009-03-03T09:11:00.000-08:00Questions for Day 101) Yes, in the past, I have be...Questions for Day 10<BR/><BR/>1) Yes, in the past, I have been a lot better in this area but I do need to work harder at this. When I don't get my way, I struggle to let go.<BR/>2) I have been better about saying sorry even when I am not the one wrong. I think for me the BIGGEST struggle i have lately is how to encourage my husband when he is down? If he has had a bad day, I try but then when I fail to cheer him up, it makes me feel bad...I feel like that is my job to encourage him.<BR/><BR/>You know the saying "If momma aint happy then no one is happy" Well it is the same with hubby. I have to remember though that "I" set the tone of the home.GraceFromHimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04002658313843275194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-65800278505016698272009-03-02T13:39:00.000-08:002009-03-02T13:39:00.000-08:00Good to have you here Tami! Jump right in! I am su...Good to have you here Tami! Jump right in! I am sure there is some great wisdom behind those 23 years. I am exited to have you here!<BR/><BR/>Blessings,<BR/>BrandieGraceFromHimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04002658313843275194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6872355549581971972.post-34188612308219665442009-03-02T08:44:00.000-08:002009-03-02T08:44:00.000-08:00Thank you for the time you are putting in to do th...Thank you for the time you are putting in to do this. I just found this link today and am joining in on the challenge.<BR/><BR/>I have been married to my wonderful husband for 23 years - and am truly blessed. My husband pastors a Baptist church in Bismarck, North Dakota. <BR/><BR/>This is something I would like to share with the ladies of my church.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com